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Some people deserve a high five. In the face. With a chair.
J left me two voicemails this weekend and mailed me a letter. How does she not understand that I want NOTHING to do with her? I haven’t replied to anything she’s done for 2 months now.
So E asked me, “thought anymore about the temporary restraining order?”
“Yes but I don’t want to call her and give notice.”
“If you decided to give notice, what would you say?”
“I’d say f*ck off b*tch.”
E looked at me and busted out laughing and jokingly replied, “that’s the ticket! Yes ma’am! It sure is!”
Whyteknucklez 
I’m glad that E. has a sense of humor! It’s so weird (well, sick) for J. not to get it. You have the fighting attitude – that’s awesome. Stay spicy! xoxo
I just caught this post (so I don’t know a lot about your situation) but I’ve always been someone that has had a lot if “stalkery” people gravitate toward me (maybe because I can be a bit creepy at times myself).
Honestly, some people just don’t know when to stop, and these kinds of actions can become something like an addiction (or even come from a history of OCD). In my life these kind of actions have required big words (a very clear statement that you can record/keep a copy of (like an email) as well as proof that you’ve told them to “eff off” (as it were) and the threat of real, legal consequences (like a restraining order) to get people to quit. Sometimes just being told that if they continue there will be serious consequences on their end is enough, but anything you can “document” in case of legal action is very helpful.
Honestly, I’ve tried the alternative. Changing email addresses, changing phone numbers, even MOVING and the result was having to live with the constant fear that I’d be found and then continue to be harassed. It ain’t no way to live!
I know how uncomfortable these situations are, but I agree that legal action and a confrontation have been the best way to protect my own rights. Sometimes the best way to fight someone with a big stick is to find a bigger stick. Good luck!!
That just made my day! I’ll go find that bigger stick!!!